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Feeling a bit bummed out this winter? Check out these 14 winter habits designed to help keep the winter blahs at bay.
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We were sitting outside at one of our homeschool group’s park playdates recently, when a friend remarked, “I hate January.”
Everyone agreed, chiming in about how depressing and cold it was and that in January we had nothing to look forward to.
And this is in Las Vegas, which gets pretty much no snow and has sunny skies about 300 days out of the year.
The sentiment is the same—even a bit bleaker—from my relatives and friends in the midwest and on the East Coast. My mom always used to tell me that more people than average died in January. I thought she must be making that up, but it turns out that this is partially true.
In many countries, death rates do skyrocket in the winter. You know where they don’t, though? In Scandinavian countries, which have some of the coldest winters around, and where they’ve made an art of celebrating the season.
So let’s make that our goal for this winter—making an art of celebrating winter’s unique gifts rather than complaining about them.
The best way to change your life is to change the things you do daily, so today I’m sharing 14 winter habits that will help keep you healthy and happy.
Of course, you won’t want to implement all of these habits at once. Pick one that really speaks to you, and once it feels like it is solid, move on to another.
Healthy Winter Habits 1: Get more sleep
1 in 3 Americans don’t get enough sleep, so chances are pretty good that you are one of them. Winter is a great time to turn in early (it was dark at my house at 4:30 last night). Although it’s tempting to stay up late watching tv, experiment with going to bed earlier than usual.
Most of us need 7-9 hours of sleep per night. Know that your “sleep efficiency” (the time in bed where you’re actually asleep) isn’t going to be 100%. Therefore, your time in bed should ideally be between eight and ten hours!
If this seems far off for you, start small. Go to bed 15 minutes earlier tonight. Try it again tomorrow. Make your bedtime even earlier next week, and see how you feel.
And, of course, here is where I have to add the disclaimer that if you’ve currently got littles in the house, sleep might be a shit show. Do the best you can in this crazy season of life.
2: Eat Your Winter Fruits and Veggies
90% of Americans don’t eat enough veggies. So, like the sleeping, there’s a good chance that you have room for improvement here.
We tend to think of spring and summer as the best times for fresh veggies, but there are tons of fruits and veggies that are in season this time of year. Load up on citrus, avocado, cabbage, butternut squash, carrots, sweet potatoes, leeks, and Brussels sprouts.
Experiment with new soups and stews, roast your veggies in the oven to warm up the house, and enjoy your dinners by candlelight. Given the right attitude, any food can be a “comfort food”.
RELATED: 25 Awesome Tricks You Need to Try if Your Kids Hate Vegetables
3: Stay Active
In the winter, it’s tempting to just plop on the couch. I laughed recently when I heard the phrase, ‘sitting is the new smoking’. But it turns out staying too sedentary is really bad for your health—especially your mental health. That’s right: it’s time you started thinking about exercise as a well-being tool rather than a weight loss one.
Although more intense exercise such as lifting weights and HIIT is great for your body, if you’re not there yet, start with some simple walking.
In her great book, The Joy of Movement, Kelly McGonigal shares the following:
“…experiments in the U.S. and the UK have forced moderately active adults to become sedentary for a period of time, only to watch their well-being wither. Regular exercisers who replaced physical activity with a sedentary activity for two weeks became more anxious, tired, and hostile. When adults are randomly assigned to reduce their daily step count, 88 percent become depressed.
Within one week of becoming more sedentary, they report a 31 percent decline in life satisfaction. The average daily step count required to induce feelings of anxiety and depression and decrease satisfaction with life is 5,649. The typical American takes 4,774 steps per day. Across the globe, the average is 4,961.”
What’s your average?
Healthy Winter Habits 4: Get Outside
To supercharge the benefits of that walk, take it outside. 120 minutes each week of time outdoors is associated with better health. That’s less than 20 minutes a day, my friend. Bundle up the kiddos and take a short walk around the block or play in the snow together—especially on sunny days.
5: Consider Supplementing Vitamin D
Scientists speculate that one of the reasons we may get more depressed in the winter is lack of vitamin D. Even if you walk outside on every sunny day, it will be tough for your body to create much vitamin D from sunlight with so many layers of clothing on, so consider chatting with your doctor about adding a supplement.
6: Drink Enough Water
I don’t know about you, but I have a much easier time remembering to drink water in the summer than in the winter. Winter air is dry, though, and our bodies need a tremendous amount of fluid to function well.
How much fluid? A great place to start is to take your weight in pounds, divide it in half, and aim for that many ounces. In our family, we’ve been drinking much of this in the form of herbal tea, and we’re loving this electric kettle that quickly makes hot water ready to go.
I love the trick of wrapping a rubber band around my glass (or teacup!) to help me remember how many times I’ve filled it that day. This makes it easy to reach my “half my body weight in ounces of water” hydration goal.
Healthy Winter Habits 7: Humidify/Purify the Air
In addition to drinking your water, consider running a humidifier in your home. When the air is more humid, it keeps your skin from drying up, reduces the risk of transmitting viruses, and helps keep your sinuses healthy.
You might also consider an in-home air purifier, which can help to filter out some of the nasties that you’d otherwise be breathing all day.
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8: Practice Mindfulness/Meditate
If you don’t already have a mindfulness practice, the winter is a great time to adopt one. Although we tend to associate mindfulness with meditation (which is wonderful and worth your time) true mindfulness simply means fully inhabiting the present moment.
In a culture that is full of distractions, this can be tough. Start small. When you’re talking with your child, experiment with giving him your full attention. When you’re washing the dishes, pay attention to the warmth of the water and the sparkliness of the suds. When you’re eating, focus on the smell, flavor, and texture of each bite.
Slowly add more and more of these mindful moments to your day, and you’ll likely notice less stressful days and improved sleep.
Related: Mindfulness for Moms–Why You Need to Try it and How to Get Started
9: Declutter
If you’ve followed me for any length of time, you know that I’m a nut about decluttering at any time of year. Because in winter we’re spending more time indoors, however, it makes sense to make our environments as cozy and clutter-free as possible.
This doesn’t have to be an arduous process. Set a timer for ten minutes, choose one small area that’s bugging you—a table, shelf, or drawer—and quickly knock out as much as you can. Repeat tomorrow, and before you know it, your home will be clutter-free.
Healthy Winter Habits 10: Write in a Journal
I think the winter naturally lends itself towards introspection, and journaling is a great way to do it. Set a regular time to get your thoughts on paper. (I like to write for a few minutes each day as a part of my morning routine.)
There’s no wrong way to do journaling. When you’re just starting out, you might use prompts to help give you ideas. The journaling app I use, Day One, has a daily prompt included as does this lovely paper journal.
Another technique I love when journaling is writing “morning pages” as described by Julia Cameron in her book The Artist’s Way. She recommends three pages daily of longhand, stream-of-consciousness writing. It’s a great way to dig deeply into some things that might be lurking beneath the surface.
11: Choose a New Hobby
Winter is a lovely time to take up a new hobby. Knitting is a natural, cozy choice, but there are literally dozens of options to choose from. You might take up a creative hobby like jewelry making that you can do solo, snuggled up indoors. You might choose an active outdoor hobby such as cross-country skiing. Or possibly make connections with others through a social hobby like ballroom dancing.
Consider what you need a little more of in your life and choose a hobby that will help you get it.
RELATED: 100+ Hobbies for Moms that Will Make Your Life Fun Again
12: Plan Things to Look Forward to
One of the reasons January feels tough is that we don’t have any holidays on the horizon for a while. This doesn’t mean that you can’t plan something wonderful for yourself to look forward to, though.
You can plan big things, like vacations, and small ones, such as a trip to your favorite bookstore or coffee shop. Make an effort to plan one little treat for yourself at least once a week or so. These don’t have to be time-consuming or expensive, but they can give you lots to be excited about.
Healthy Winter Habits 13: Connect with Loved Ones
Once the holidays have passed, we often don’t get to see as much of our loved ones as we like. Winter weather can make travel difficult, and busy schedules can make it tough to connect.
Look for small ways to connect with those that you love. Texting and FaceTime are obvious choices, but you can get even more creative. You might play Scrabble online with your brother. Send handwritten letters back and forth with your best friend. Perhaps you could meet for a weekly digital happy hour with your coworkers.
Look for ways, too, that you can combine some of the habits and activities listed above. Meeting weekly with your sister for a morning ice skating date knocks out a hobby, exercise, time outdoors, and time with a loved one all at once.
14: Volunteer
There are obviously lots of selfless reasons to volunteer your time this winter. You might not have considered, though, how volunteering can help your own mental and physical health.
It’s a great way to meet and connect with new people who share your values. Volunteering can help remind you of your own good fortune and give you a chance to use your gifts in service to the world. And all of this goodness can’t help but make you happier. Indeed, a 2020 study by researchers in the UK found that volunteering increased participants’ happiness over time.
And it’s good for your physical health, too. Volunteering has been linked to individuals who live longer. And a 2013 study at Carnegie Mellon University showed that volunteering for 200 hours per year decreased participants’ risk of developing hypertension (high blood pressure) by 40%!!!
There you go: 14 winter habits to employ that will help keep you happy and healthy (even in January). Of course, you don’t have to limit these things to the winter months. They’ll help keep you physically and mentally well all year round.
Do It Now:
- Choose one winter habit from the list that you’d like to put into practice.
- Start with a teeny tiny version of that habit–something so small that your brain can’t talk you out of doing it. (ex: do one pushup, declutter for 10 minutes)
- Decide what you will use to anchor this small habit seamlessly into your day or week. (ex: every day after lunch I will walk around the block for 1 minute; every time I go to the grocery store, I will add one extra vegetable to my cart)
- Celebrate yourself whenever you do your habit to help your brain want to do it more. (ex: give yourself a high five, say to yourself “that’s like me!”, or drop a quarter in a jar you’re using to save for something cool)
- Once habit number one feels solid, move onto the next one one your list.
- Want more help with habit change? Check out my Hack Your Habits course!
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